Calling All Dateless Men - 5 Tips That Will Guarantee You An Online Date

Are you struggling to find a date online? If so, then guys, you’re totally doing it wrong. If you are like most men, you are making online dating way harder than it needs to be. Try to think more simply. No, in fact, stop thinking. Just follow these five tips and you’ll have an online date by Friday night, guaranteed.

1. Sign Up for Multiple Online Dating Sites Simultaneously

If you just sign up with one online dating site, you only have small pool of women to choose from. Why limit yourself? Sign up with several online dating sites and start stacking your online love finding deck!

Here is a small list of online dating sites to try:

• Plenty of Fish – Popular and Free
•  Ok Cupid – Also Popular and Free
•  Match.com – Small Online Dating Fee
•  Eharmony – Small Online Dating Fee
• Zoosk – Small Online Dating Fee

2. Use Humor in Your Dating Profile

From your online dating Headline to your About Me to your Ideal Online Date, try your best to elicit a laugh from anyone who may view it. Humor is an instant ice breaker. Even cheesy can work in certain situations. Don’t go overboard, but be sly, witty if you can and humorous and you’ll have more online dates than you know what to do with.

3. Choose Your Online Dating Photo Wisely

A woman viewing your profile will take one look at your headline and then your photo. If your photo fails to impress, the viewer will be on to the next profile to catch her eye. Make sure your photo shows you in your best light – always. Every photo should be your best one if you want to maximize your chances. You do not need to look like Brad Pitt, you don’t have to be the pinnacle of fitness, but you do need to look presentable in your photos.

If possible, come up with the following photos to maximize your chances.

        

• A well-dressed full body photo of you having fun indoors with other people. 
• An outdoor pic of you laughing or smiling. 
• An indoor action pic – you doing something 
• A full face smiling pic that will act as your primary photo – make it a good one (Get a professional to help you).

4. Get Her Talking About Herself

As the man, your job is to get the woman emotionally invested in you. If you have your sights set on a woman, read her profile to get intel you can use in your initial message to her. Use something you read about in her profile to get her talking about herself. Pick a hobby of hers, her job or something else she’s written about and ask her about it. Ask in-depth questions and try to keep the conversation flowing.

Bonus Tip: If you can get her to laugh at the same time, you’re golden.

5. Get the Number Quickly

The reason online dating is so easy is because all you have to do is get the woman’s phone number and you’re in. Choose a witty or funny headline, choose excellent photos of yourself, get the woman talking about herself and then ask for the number. Once you have that, you’re practically there. You simply call the woman on the phone, establish a connection and ask her on a date. Wham, bam, it’s that easy.

How do you establish a connection with a woman over the phone? That’s for next time.